When someone is happy, he generates a feeling of joy and
cooperation among those he comes into contact with. Contrast that with
the impact made by someone who is joyless and negative, who seems to
constantly sap the energy from everyone and everything he comes into
contact with. The founder of the influential civic and philanthropic New
York City organization, the Grand Street Boys, the late Judge Jonah
Goldstein was fond of reminding others, "Happiness is the one thing in
life that multiplies by division. The more you give to others, the more
you have for yourself." However, happiness does far more than just that.
It actually makes someone stronger and better. Francesca Reigler
stated, "Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable,
or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same."
1. Why is it that some people seem to generally be in a good mood, joyful, positive and giving, while others seem to be constant sour pusses? It all relates to one's attitude. When someone approaches life with a positive attitude, he sees ways to get more things done, and achieved. Positive people tend to live longer, happier, more stress- free lives, and seem to have almost endless energy. On the other hand, when one decides, either consciously or sub- consciously to be joyless, they spend their time worrying about what might happen, or commiserating about what might have been. Rather than be grateful for what they have, they often exhibit pettiness, anger and jealousy. Often, these negative people seem to almost never even smile, and when they do, it appears to be more of a smirk or chuckle. than to give them any real joy. Joyless people spend more time being miserable, and thus often seem far more tired and irritable than happier individuals.
2. There is a scientific fact that it takes far more muscles and energy to frown than to smile. Even though nothing productive is ever produced by frowning, why is it that it seems that there are more frowners than smilers? The happier someone truly is (and that is far different than those that either pretend to be, or feign happiness), the more productive he invariably ends up being. In addition, who would you rather spend time with, someone that emits joy and happiness, or someone that emits a negative aura, that ends up bringing others around him down to his joyless level?
There have been many songs, courses, poems, etc. that warn us that it is better to be happy, yet so many continue to not heed the advice, and the obvious. The first, and perhaps most essential ingredient in success is to put yourself in a position to be successful, and that begins by being joyful and positive.
1. Why is it that some people seem to generally be in a good mood, joyful, positive and giving, while others seem to be constant sour pusses? It all relates to one's attitude. When someone approaches life with a positive attitude, he sees ways to get more things done, and achieved. Positive people tend to live longer, happier, more stress- free lives, and seem to have almost endless energy. On the other hand, when one decides, either consciously or sub- consciously to be joyless, they spend their time worrying about what might happen, or commiserating about what might have been. Rather than be grateful for what they have, they often exhibit pettiness, anger and jealousy. Often, these negative people seem to almost never even smile, and when they do, it appears to be more of a smirk or chuckle. than to give them any real joy. Joyless people spend more time being miserable, and thus often seem far more tired and irritable than happier individuals.
2. There is a scientific fact that it takes far more muscles and energy to frown than to smile. Even though nothing productive is ever produced by frowning, why is it that it seems that there are more frowners than smilers? The happier someone truly is (and that is far different than those that either pretend to be, or feign happiness), the more productive he invariably ends up being. In addition, who would you rather spend time with, someone that emits joy and happiness, or someone that emits a negative aura, that ends up bringing others around him down to his joyless level?
There have been many songs, courses, poems, etc. that warn us that it is better to be happy, yet so many continue to not heed the advice, and the obvious. The first, and perhaps most essential ingredient in success is to put yourself in a position to be successful, and that begins by being joyful and positive.
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